One-on-one Discipleship

The Bible gives numerous examples of one-on-one discipleship: Jethro and Moses (Ex 18:19-22), Moses and Joshua (Nu 27), Eli and Samuel, David and Jonathan (1 Sa 20), Elijah and Elisha, Barnabas and Paul (Ac 9:27), Paul and Timothy (1 Co 4:17, 2 Ti 3:10-11), Priscilla/Aquilla and Apollos (Ac 18:26).

These examples shatter our tendency to think that discipleship relationships must all look alike. They don't. They serve different purposes at different times of life. But they all have one thing in common: believers meeting one-on-one with other believers for spiritual accountability and growth, as God commands both men (2 Ti 2:2) and women (Tit 2:3-5).

Are you a new believer? A mentor can give you a "jump start," providing a basic foundation for Christian living and spiritual disciplines. Have you reached a plateau in your spiritual growth? A mentor can often provide a "spiritual checkup" by evaluating the vital signs of your spiritual life, helping you to move forward again. Are you struggling with a particularly strong sin or addiction like pornography, lust, over-eating, etc? A mentor can provide the needed guidance and accountability. Are you a parent struggling to practice effective family devotions? A mentor can coach you until you learn the ropes.

Do you struggle to love your spouse as God intends? A seasoned married couple can help you identify heart idols, resolve conflicts, improve communication, and cherish one another. Are you concerned about one of your children? New studies show that adult mentors are far more influential in a youth's faith development than large and dynamic youth ministries. Are you a college student overwhelmed by the options before you? A seasoned Christian can help you navigate these choices with wisdom. Are you a mother wondering what high purpose will fill the void as your children leave home? Consider the Titus 2:4 mandate!